Did the title make you say WHAAT?? Yeah I don’t blame you, I do and see some very odd things in life, and I’m no longer afraid to post about them online. This is quite a personal post, and you totally don’t have to believe me, but I’m writing this in hopes that it will inspire some of you to think outside the box, explore your sexual energy and perhaps not rely on medicine so much.

This is the reason I got into tantra

When people ask me why and how I got into tantra, I usually tell them that it’s because I’ve always had a lot of sexual energy that I know I could use for a greater purpose; that of healing, manifestation and more! Tantric practices have opened many doors for me, and I hope to inspire others with my crazy stories.

So without too much waffling, I basically want to tell you a short story that happened to me recently. I’ve been ill in bed for a week with flu-like symptoms, a blocked nose and headaches. Through the process of blowing my nose so much, I ended up getting mucus in my ears, which, as some of you may know, is far from a pleasant experience!

I can handle walking around for days as if I’m underwater, but at 22:00 a sharp pain took over my right ear that wouldn’t stop for 5 hours straight! I was literally wailing in child pose in my bed because the pain was almost unbearable. I was desperate, I would have done anything to make it stop.

I just wanted the pain to stop

I tried to put some drops in it, with no luck. I was not in any state of mind to meditate, ask for healing help from other beings or any of the other techniques that came to mind, so I decided to use the strongest power I had available to me – my sexual energy. I wasn’t sure it would work, but I thought if anything, it would at least distract me for a little while.

Putting it into layman terms, I quite literally masturbated my pain away. The act itself was surely distracting, but I knew the pain was still there. When I reached an orgasm, I set the intention that this energy would be used to cure my ear, and as I felt it rising, I sent it up my spine, and into my ear.

I don’t really know how to describe exactly what I did, it was a mixture of intention and some ancient sacred sexuality practices that helped me transform the huge orgasmic power into something that healed me almost instantly. I was asleep within a minute – something that I wasn’t even sure was possible at that point.

When I woke up the morning after I thought, wow I did a pretty cool thing last night! I know the power of sexual energy is strong, but you don’t often get a chance to use it in non-sexual circumstances, so it was a great experience for me. I’m curious to see what else it can do…

How to get yourself “there”

Check out some amazing tantra courses here.

Just looking for a quick solo-orgasm? Here are a few recommended toys:

• Clitoral stimulation: this one is great, Here’s a slightly fancier version too. And this one imitates oral sex.
• G-spot stimulation: this one is one of the most popular ones. Or this one for maximum strength.
• Remote-controlled bullet vibrator.
• If you’re into the wand massagers, this is the one for you.
• For working those pelvic floor muscles and intensifying orgasms – get some luna beads.
• Here’s one for the men.

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